I heard Savanah Gutherieās commencement speech this morning as replayed on the Today show, and it was excellent. Her words not only apply to the 2019 grads she was addressing, but they resonate with all of us. I especially feel her words in my own zig-zagged path to being a writer and getting published.
The goals are never-ending for me. I reach one, pause to celebrate for a minute, then push forward to the next. But in doing this, I often forget that, as Savanaha basically says, the journey is the destination.
As a writer, I speak to fellow writers who struggle with their path for various reasons that often change day to day. This speech will inspire you to keep going. But I also share this as a person living this thing called life. We can all use these inspiring words to keep us going.
Here are some highlights to note from Savanahās speech:
My path is not how anyone would tell anybody to get anywhere. Itās like someone giving you directions from right here to New York City by telling you to start heading toward Miami. But what Iāve realized is ā no matter how many detours you take, youāre going to get where you are meant to go.
Every person sitting here has some kind of dream ā an idea of what their lives might look like. It could be a career goal, it could be an athletic achievement, it could be the place you want to live or the family that you hope to create. Hereās the thing: Whisper it to yourself if you must, but say it out loud, put it out there - donāt curb your ambitions, donāt tell yourself, āI could never do that. Iām not good enough. Itās too much.ā
This is a particularly inspiring portion of the message:
Every person sitting here has some kind of dream ā an idea of what their lives might look like. It could be a career goal, it could be an athletic achievement, it could be the place you want to live or the family that you hope to create. Hereās the thing: Whisper it to yourself if you must, but say it out loud, put it out there ā donāt curb your ambitions, donāt tell yourself, āI could never do that. Iām not good enough. Itās too much.ā
My advice is really simple: Think big for yourself and then, just head in that general direction. Whether you arrive at the ideal destination is not even the point. The point is to be ambitious for your lifeā¦ and then just, try.
Now: of course, I canāt know where your fulfillment and happiness will be found. I canāt tell you where your dream is. Only you know that.
But I can tell you where it isnāt. It isnāt in your comfort zone. It isnāt in your wheelhouse. Itās not where you feel safe. Itās not where conditions are perfect. It is not where you are usually right and rarely challenged.
Your blossoming and your growth ā which is to say, your success ā is always, always, inevitably, on the other side of a risk. Itās on the other side of a bold choice. Itās on the edge, waiting for you, on the other side of your fear.
This is true whether itās career, or faith, a relationship, or love ā when you find it, it will only be after youāve taken that big, giant, daring leap. It will be you, standing at the tip of a ravine, or maybe itās a tall cliff rising over a deep canyonā¦ youāre looking down and looking across, your heartbeat is rising, your sweat glands are pulsing. You will be here many times. You will be called to do this again and again and again.
And what you will find is ā your obstacles, your broken places, the spots where youāve healed, the things youāve overcome ā this is the source of your strength, and it also is the source of your beauty.
If youād like to see a video of her full speech or simply read the full thing, go to the Today Show page. Itās worth the read.
Mostly, I hope you walk away from this post with a bounce in your step and head out there with your purpose renewed.